Hard Choices

Everyday, every hour, every moment we have decisions to make, some good others not, some hard others simple. Not all of us are very good at this task. Its’ only the wise and unselfish people who manage to make the best decisions at the end of the day. Especially when the decision concerns others life and feelings, that is when its’ really tricky. Hard part would be deciding whether what you have is worth having or giving up.
Keeping or giving up, which one to choose? If keeping something means your hurting some one else, its worth giving up. Not taking into consideration your own feelings or how hurt you feel. This is where being unselfish is important. You can’t have something just because you want it. It’s our decision that would define who we are at the end. It’s a decision to give something up selflessly for a better cause which would differ one from another. Shows just how much extraordinary you are.
It’s not important that people come to know of the noble things you have done. What important is that you know and you’re a good person in front of your eyes. That is what really matters.

Secrets

I have secrets I have never told anyone. I don’t find this surprising, I believe all of us have secrets for their own reasons. Im not saying Im particularly proud of some, but I keep them to myself for one reason or another. Other secrets I believe are better left hidden with me. Its my techniques to do something or maybe somethings that would make it easier for someone else to jugde or know me. Im not rying to be mysterious, rather I don’t like people knowing much about me. So to hide its easier to be interested in the other person and make lots of jokes. It allows the other person to see how confident and easy going I am. Thus, rules out time to talk about some of my stuff.
Lots of things that I have seen, heard and experienced have taught me a lot. What to say, when to say or more importantly what not to say. Its not always easy, I do make slips. Things I don’t mean to say. For this reason maybe some people have a very different view about me than others. And this ‘different view’ is pleasant for some and might not be so to some others.
Guess this is the reason im so keen on studying people. Sometimes doing something to see how they react or just observing and also reading what I can find which might help me in my task. Most of the people its easy. Apparently they don’t seem axious to hide, and others, to look. In life various things tend to be easier if others are known properly. Its easier to get help or get along with others if you know to deal with them.
I don’t intend to tell anyone I have left as secrets all this time. Long since life has taught me not trust people much. Gain others but never let my guard down. Experience has given me a nudge away from the fairy tale life I lived.